I am not naturally a smiley person. I was considered too serious as a child, a shy secret worrier. I married a man who smiles. My father cautioned me to not ever let that change. He knew me well enough that he feared my potential impact on my husband. It was a wise warning.
Ken reinforces my efforts. My smiles and small laughs please him. I guess he knows they are sincere when they happen. I have tried to relax and let my happiness show. Blank and private faces are almost as unhelpful as frowns. I am convinced letting your "light" shine makes a difference. A smile is a light.
I was a substitute teacher for about eight years. It was often a difficult task, but it taught me that one of the very best ways to have a good day is to be happy. The kids could tell. They responded.
It is a lesson that I need to relearn and apply. When I have family problems, criticism doesn't help, Worry and fear don't help. Smiling might.
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3 comments:
Well said. Thank you for sharing this.
Smiles really do make people feel more comfortable. I try to smile at my kids even if I'm frustrated at something else. I don't want them to think I'm frustrated with them.
:D
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